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Starve Like Ogres, Feast Like Kings

Photo and original bookmarks by Lucia Whittaker

I want to convince Matt Langdon (maker of rules that kids actually get) to join me for a leg of the Adventure. Perhaps when I leave New Orleans, which won’t be till spring.

This was my pitch:

We will feast like kings and starve like ogres! Burn in the sun and shudder in the wind. One day is a dream of paradise, the next is a fork in the road to choose from.

This is, perhaps, not good sales copy. Who wants to burn, shudder, starve?

Ah, but my time on the road was entirely joyful. There were hard moments, it’s true, but that is travel’s coquetry. She pushes you away when she wants to pull you close. The kiss is inescapable, but you must struggle for it and wait.

When at last she touches your shoulder, it thrills.

The Blood is Mandatory

Every adventure is this way. The dancing of the soul is a guarantee, the bad times its prelude and adagio. No symphony can rise on just one or the other. The blood, as they say, is mandatory.

Thus, from the mud the mountains look loftier. Once near the peak, the mud is long behind you; every thorn becomes a badge, an award, a memory. At the same time, the smallest pleasures stand in stark outline. A slow cup of coffee, a cafe terrace, stretching in wet grass.

Sensual pleasures hum through the soul, highlighted by previous discomfort.

And so discomfort and joy become bedfellows. Two swans who lead the way: one to navigate the sea-storm, one to preen in the sun. They make love in tall grass. They sing at evening.

This is the joy of the heroic faith.

Not reveling in pain, reveling in life itself. Life always entails pain, like the bitters in a well-made drink. The adventurer orders it double.

If you wish to join me, for two days, twenty or a year, we will see it together. You too will thrill in the complete harmony that life presents. We will laugh at snowstorms, hold each other in fever and, smiling, chase the dogs who steal our lunch.

When we relax in a rich man’s garden, we will look at each other across cups of tea and we will know: This is earth and blood.

Earth is all we’re given, blood is all we spend. Why pretend there’s anything else?

I’m writing my first novella. It has magic spells, happy corn, sad farmers, and desperate fucking. Lúnasa Days.


Female Heroism and Pixar’s “Brave”

One day on my journey I saw the movie Brave with two friends. Kira and Tony put me up for a couple nights at a family cabin. After swimming and drinking by the lake we decided a little red-headed warrior girl would be a great addition to our evening.

I enjoyed the movie. I was surprised when Matt Langdon of the Hero Construction Company lampooned it in the Hero Report. He had two main criticisms:

  1. The main character, Merida, starts off too accomplished (a master at archery and horsemanship) so there isn’t an arc of becoming a hero.
  2. The concept of being brave enough to change your fate, supposedly the eponymous point of the movie, is hardly made at all.

Matt isn’t totally wrong here, but he misses a big chunk of what’s important (and inspirational) about the story. I think this is largely because he comes at it with a very masculine expectation of what constitutes a protagonist.

I should disclose some biases. One, I’m male myself. Two, I love Celtic culture and stories, as do Kira and Tony. We adored the setting and the little hints of Celtic and Viking society that were peppered throughout. More to the point, as someone who enjoys fencing, traveling and adventuring, I like stories about becoming a badass. Brave doesn’t deliver such a story.

But actually? That’s a breath of fresh air.

Breaking the Formula

There’s a pretty formulaic way of doing adventure movies. An initially clueless male hero discovers he has great power; he masters that power and saves the world. Since this is the archetypal hero, there was a time when feminists agitated for more females in this role (or at least, that’s what male directors heard).

Accordingly, Matt wanted Brave to use the same “become a badass” story arc but with a female hero. He cite his daughter’s poster of a female knight storming a castle as an example of what he’d like in a movie. And admittedly, that kind of female badass was really a step forward in our view of gender roles—in, like, the 1970s.

We have a pretty good stockpile of those heroines now. Cf. Battlestar‘s Starbuck, Firefly‘s River Tam or Metroid‘s Samus, among hundreds of others (I’m leaning toward non-sexualized examples here). This character is so common she’s become a trope, parodied by comedies like Your Highness. (heh, minotaur cock). And sure, female badasses are still outnumbered by male badasses, but the role-model-value of this trope is questionable.

Increasingly, I hear feminists criticize the female badass.* Sure, it’s nice that women are allowed to have swords and guns now, but is that the only way to be a female hero? Do heroines really have to give up all pretense at femininity and occupy a traditionally male role? Are tomboys the only successful females our daughters are allowed to see?

What if a girl likes princesses and ribbons—can she be heroic, too?

*Readers: I now can’t find the feminist articles I had in mind here. Anybody have a link to a good one?

Brave gives us a heroine who is torn between these worlds. Merida wants to shoot arrows and ride in the woods, which she only does once near the beginning. To Matt this is a shame: why can’t she use these skills throughout the movie to change her fate? But she tries to use these skills—and discovers that badassery can’t always change power structures or one girl’s fate.

The reason Merida begins as a badass is the same reason Luke Skywalker begins as a farmer. Neither the archery in Brave nor the vaporators in Star Wars are going to be much use to the heroes. The hero has to find new skills to achieve their goal.

Merida’s goal is not to be married off to some lug her parents choose. Instead of shooting her way to freedom, she ends up having to rely on a mixture of traditionally masculine and feminine talents, including her outdoors skills, ancient magic, deception, a jail breakout and, unprecedented, accepting the advice of her mother. 

Merida’s character changes substantially over the film. She goes from a badass but selfish/clueless teenager to a real adult. She learns to establish her personal freedom without ditching her responsibilities to others.

That’s a pretty impressive change. It echoes Sarah from The Labyrinth more than it does Katniss Everdeen, thank the gods.

Matt closes by summing up what he disliked:

…It’s a cliché against another cliché. Her mother wanted her to be a Disney princess, but she wanted to be a Disney prince.

Unrealistic parental expectations versus unrealistic childhood dreams? Sounds believable to me.

Merida’s arc is to overcome both extremes in favor of a successful, realistic adult life. This is a major departure from Campbellian story structure, so it’s a bold move for Hollywood—and it’s long overdue.

Have any of you seen this movie? Is Merida a good role model for girls? Is she a hero? Was the story good?


Today’s Hero Report

This is last minute, but I’ll be live on the air at the Hero Report with Ari Kohen and Matt Langdon. We’ll be podcasting today (Friday 7/27) at 3:00 CST.

The Adventure has started, and with it my personal quest to understand heroism and meet the gods. These guys thought it would be time to bring me back on the air and give an idea of how exactly that’s working out.

And you can ask us questions live on the air!

The Hero Report Weekly

If you can’t watch it live all episodes are archived on the front page of that site.


Live on the Hero Report

Edit: Today’s show had to be postponed because of technical problems! Sad, but Matt and Ari plan to reschedule the show in the next few weeks. I’ll keep you posted!

This just in! I’ll be live on the air at the Hero Report with Ari Kohen and Matt Langdon. We’ll be podcasting today (Friday 5/18) at 4:00 EST.

I’m not sure exactly why I’m being invited back after last time—the damage to the set from our sword fight was pretty extensive. But I guess they want to hear more about the Adventure now that I’m on the verge of starting.

The best part is you can ask me questions live on the air! For details on how to do that, or just to tune in and watch, click here:

The Hero Report Weekly

If you can’t watch it live all episodes are archived on the front page of that site.


Interview: Rogue Priest Strikes Back

Last week week I was interviewed about the Heroic Life and my plan for the Great Adventure. It isn’t the first time, but this one was particularly exciting for two reasons. First off it was my first ever podcast appearance with full video. So you can see my smiling face! And second, this interview was for The Hero Report, a weekly podcast specifically dedicated to discussing issues of heroism and how to act heroically in today’s world.

It was a lot of fun. The show is co-hosted by two men with pretty serious credentials. Ari Kohen is a professor of political science who specializes in human rights and restorative justice. His long-term research focuses on the role heroism plays in justice.

Matt Langdon is the founder and mentor behind the Hero Construction Company, a company that teaches children how to actually be heroes. That is too rad to describe.

So how do my hands-on, in the dirt, live action views of the Heroic Life collide with these two brilliant minds? Well, you’ll have to check it out to find out.

The Hero Report Episode 5: The Rogue Priest Strikes Back

(Okay, I made up the title, but could you have passed it up?)

You can see past episodes of the Hero Report here. Please tweet or share this post and give these guys some love.


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