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Should You Cool It or Should You Blow

Quitting is something I’ve never been good at. I’m crazy stupid about not quitting.

I’m not sure exactly where I get this trait, but I think it’s hereditary. I remember the family camping trip where we stayed in our campsite through a tornado. That made me think maybe dad is crazy stupid about not quitting, too.

This can be a phenomenally good quality. I can’t remember how many times I’ve gotten something to work after others have given up. Most people declare “impossible” at the threshold of their exhaustion. I just power through. I’d like to think I’d make a good Navy SEAL.

But even I have learned that there are times when giving up is a good call. My short list of “quittable moments” includes:

  • Breaking a fast that coincided with two days of construction work and a 12-hour round trip car ride.
  • Deciding against 2 years of grad school to pursue a career in politics, when I realized I absolutely loathe politics.
  • Breaking up with a girlfriend after she literally threw a vase at me (I thought that was only supposed to happen in cartoons)
  • Deciding not to die in an icy coffin.

These were all good decisions, and I regret none of them. Recently however I was faced with a much bigger decision.

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Why Heroism is My Religion

Last week I answered a lot of questions about what my temple teaches: a branch of polytheism firmly rooted in old Irish traditions. But one of the things I value about that path is that it allows members to have their own individual beliefs. My spiritual views go far beyond polytheism.

Although I will always honor the gods of nature, I don’t consider their worship to be my religion. The Heroic Life is my religion. 

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Expostmodern Religion

I sometimes refer to myself as an expostmodern priest. Many of you asked what that means. Well, guess what? Now you have an answer!

My new essay: How to Be ExPoMod

I wrote it thanks to Colin Wright as a feature post for Most Interesting People in the Room and it’s spreading like wildfire on Twitter. More and more people are talking about ExPoMod because it sums up the changes that are happening across our lives right now. Popular attitudes, technology, business trends, the way artists work, even the narrative that resonates most with people in literature (or ad copy) are all changing.

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Walk Like a God

Tell me if this sounds familiar: church was never your thing. Churches turn you off.

Maybe you swore off of them, or maybe you never really went in the first place.

But you still get this feeling, every once in a while, that there is something bigger out there. You’re not willing to say it’s God. It might be. But maybe not.

A lot of people feel this way. Even as church seems more and more outdated, people continue to feel the same sense of spiritual longing. Without being religious at all, you can have moments of profound spirituality, or a desire for them.

Those moments are powerful.

That’s the allure of religion. Even when it might seem outdated, organized religion provides a structure that the individual can use to pursue those deep questions and moments of clarity. The trick is that so many religions don’t do that, or don’t do it well. They might bundle it with a conservative or fundamentalist message, with hate language, or with unrealistic beliefs.

In my own search for a better spirituality, I adopted an apprenticeship path. I was privileged to learn from some of the greatest teachers in several religious traditions, and then to help found a temple that offers an apprenticeship program of its own. To me, this was exceedingly helpful.

But one of the most important things I learned is that we carry our spirituality within us. You don’t need all those trappings to find your truth.

Each and every individual has the ability to connect with the spiritual. This can happen in beautiful natural places, where sacredness seems to imbue the land. It can happen when you’re alone, when the world feels most alive. It can even happen spontaneously.

The sense I get is that most people don’t know how to seek out those moments, how to call upon them at will, how to meet the divine.

But it isn’t hard.

That’s why, after carefully considering reader suggestions, I’ve decided to write my first ebook: Walk Like a God.

Walk Like a God will be a simple how-to, taking those glimpses of spirituality and bringing them to life. It will help you find spiritual experiences and connect to them without doctrine, church or scripture. It is a practical book, for thoughtful types.

I expect the book will be available in mid-June. If you’re searching for your own spirituality, I hope you’ll consider reading it.

Will this book be useful to you? Let me know in the comments below.

edit: Walk Like a God is now available! Check it out.


Enkidu, pt. 3: The Great Kind of Crazy

I had my magician-knowledge. I learned from the land. And now it was time to put it to use. I did so with vigor, relentlessly.

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Enkidu, Pt. 2: How to Live Wild

Today’s soundtrack: here.

The sun was shining. The breeze was blowing. And a stark naked woman stood in front of us, smiling.

This isn’t the start of a romance novel. It’s the true-to-life account of my three weeks living at a hunter-gatherer camp. Specifically, at Teaching Drum Outdoor School in northern Wisconsin.

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