A friend of mine has been facing repeated heartbreak as he tries to get a fledgling relationship off the ground. We talked recently and he asked me, “Why do I have to keep paying in tears and pain for the sin of desiring romantic human companionship? Sometimes I feel cursed.”
This led to a conversation:
Me: Do you ever talk to your spirits?
Friend: Other than an aimless “why?” screamed towards the Heavens, no.
Me: Might not be a bad idea.
Friend: Why? You think I’m cursed?
Me: No, I don’t. If I’d felt that I would have done a ceremony for you already.
Friend: I don’t think I’m cursed either.
Me: The spirit world has a way of unblocking things that are blocked and pointing out things that aren’t easy to see. That’s the reason I suggest it. Gently, of course, with with total respect for your own freedom to do as you see fit spiritually :)
Friend: How should I begin? I need answers with this thing. I’m losing it.
Me: I would begin by just going to a quiet place and talking to them. Bring a gift, even if it’s just water or a few coins. Ask them for their guidance and listen with an open heart.
They may ask you to make changes or to do something. If you feel comfortable with what they say then do it. If you make the changes they tell you to make you will see the ripples of it across your life.
That is my experience.
Friend: Did you sense something? Hear something? Like how did you recognize the guidance?
Me: I think it’s different for every person. I wouldn’t expect a voice to whisper in your ear (might be a bad sign if it does). I feel it in my heart.
I’m going to the Beach this afternoon. What kind of offering do you think I should take? Pennies to throw into the water? I’m honestly clueless about these things.
Me: I think pennies are a great idea.
I may no longer run a temple, lead many public ceremonies, or even have a clear sense of whether the gods exist outside our heads… but I’d like to think I’m still doing my job as a priest for those who need it.
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